Could This Be Menopause?

Question

I am 28 years of age, had my first period when I was 15. Just two weeks ago, I started getting a head cold but the cold did not repeat when my period started. Since then, I got hot flashes and then extreme coldness follows. The hot flashes were reduced since my period stopped, but in exchange of that, I am having bad cramps and diarrhea and I get tired easily. I always feel itchy, and then when I put on my lotion, I could not breathe and I feel extremely hot. I also feel I am bloated all the time. I could not wear jeans as they are so tight. Sex hurts now so I do not have any of it now. Aside from all of these, my feet and ankles are now swollen. I don’t know what is going on in me. Any help would be highly appreciated.